“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Caught up again!!!!

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Here's a brief summary of the situation

-Was dating for about a year.
-We broke up basically because we were seeing too much of each other like seeing and sleeping with each other everyday and got frustrated with each other often.
-We did not talk for about 2 weeks, then started talking again.
-I work where she lives but I moved away so I commute to work now.


Here is what is happening right now
-Talking now and I have slept at her house about 5 times in the last 10 days. Had sex and was going to again last night but I got messed up a little too much. We kiss affectionatley and everything.
-She brought up letting me stay at her house a couple times a week so I agreed.
-Me and her tell each other that we love each other and she always asks me if I do and I say yes or you know the answer.
-She also kind of brought up what she wants and vice or versa. She says she doesnt know what she wants and I didnt really tell her what I want. But I want her as my gf again i try not to tell her know that, maybe my actions do though

I feel that we are getting close too each other again but if she ends up not wanting to be in a relationship again then that sucks. Maybe deep down inside she does too i dont know. Right now my cell phone is shut off and it will stay off for the next couple of days im suppose to stay over her house tomorrow cause I need to think about what im getting into and be unavailable ;). Im not going to bring up where we are at or what I want I know thats her job. But what else can I do here? I dont know if i should leave or stay around its hard I can just pick up and leave.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you need to bring Balance to the Force.


how old are you?

it seems you spent way to much time with her.

I mean seeing your girl 4 or 5 times a week is great.

but if ur spending the night as well..that can be overkill.

bring balance to ur life and it will fall in place.
 
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See other women do you? If not, perhaps this will aid in clarifying answers my young padawan.

See her too much you do. She senses your desperation for a relationship.

One-itis do you have.

:nervous:
 
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Im 22 and shes 24. Im going to try to bring balance its good that I dont live up here with her anymore right now. Im not with her right now "technically" weve only been hanging out again for about 2 weeks after not being together for about a month. I just dont like not knowing where we stand but I know I cant bring it up cause it might scare her. Im the type of person that just wants to get things doen right then and there but I try to have a lot of self control
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well i was basically living there I had a house cause I was in college also but I would stay at her house basically everynight and be with her everynight. I know there is a possibility of getting back together since im not living next to her anymore so therefore would only see each other a couple times a week
 
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