"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Caught a female friend cheating on her bf
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
If you tell him that someone told you she was cheating but that you don't know for a fact, that should take the heat off you because you're giving him second hand info...and it will make him dig for facts.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I caught a girl cheating on my best friend.. they had been dating for about a year and a half, this was this time last year... they are still dating now. They way I see it is, he was cheating on her as well, I would be a hypocrite if I told him what was going on and she had no idea what was going on... this isn't mY relationship therefore it's not MY problem. i have enough problems as it is.
As for me, I figure if I am even in the situtation where I think my GF is cheating on me, it's my fault for not leaving her.. I've never had a situtation where my gut told me something was wrong with this girl or a relationship and it not be right
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Those are possibilities, yes. Depends on what the guy and the girl is like. Confronting anyone without evidence is never wise, they can just turn things back on you easily and you come off worse. So if you have any kind of evidence, then confront her or tell him and let them do what they feel they need to do.Wyldfire said:Well, if you tell your friend he might not believe you. If you confront the girl she will deny it and then likely try to casue a rift between you and her boyfriend. She could even tell him you hit on her or touched her inappropriately or something.
If you tell him that someone told you she was cheating but that you don't know for a fact, that should take the heat off you because you're giving him second hand info...and it will make him dig for facts.
Personally if i didn't have any evidence i'd create a story to get my friend thinking about the possibility of being cheated on. Mix into the story any signs you know she's made of cheating, and let his mind do the rest. I hate the method, yet anything more direct without evidence is just going to end badly. Even with evidence, it's going to end badly in the short term if you get involved.
I don't envy the position you are in.
"Hey I'm going to get home early from meeting today."
"Uh ok hold on."
I hang up. Something's wrong. Since I was already close home.
I open door. See the guy's **** in her *****.
I wanted to go on a killing spree.
I got cheated on.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Damn, that sucks. What a ho. Was that recently?sifer said:Letme put it this way. My mind is killing me so things may not be coherent.
"Hey I'm going to get home early from meeting today."
"Uh ok hold on."
I hang up. Something's wrong. Since I was already close home.
I open door. See the guy's **** in her *****.
I wanted to go on a killing spree.
I got cheated on.
diplomatic_lies
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Whatever you do, keep in mind that if you get involved in your friends' love life, it WILL be messy. For you.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
insanity
Master Don Juan
i think i may have been cheated on once. i never did catch her, but this rung a bell in my head after being broke up with her months later. i remember watching the maury show on cheaters and my girlfriend at the time looked at me and said "if you cheated on me i don't think i would dump you". "i would be mad at you though". if you really look at that in ********, it's like she was saying if i cheat on you you can only get mad at me.