Caught a female friend cheating on her bf

[sifer]

Now I'm pissed. Cause he's a close friend of mine.

Then I realized one thing.

I got cheated on as well.

She went as far as ****ing another man.

****. ****. ****.

 

[Scrumtulescence]

Wait, so they're both friends of yours? Tough situation, man. I'd confront her first about it, if he doesn't know yet. If a female friend of mine did that, though, I'd immediately lose a ton of respect for her, myself.

 

[SAYNO]

Hmm.


Did you find out by accident or did she leave some kind of evidence around?



SN'

 

[Wyldfire]

Well, if you tell your friend he might not believe you. If you confront the girl she will deny it and then likely try to casue a rift between you and her boyfriend. She could even tell him you hit on her or touched her inappropriately or something.

If you tell him that someone told you she was cheating but that you don't know for a fact, that should take the heat off you because you're giving him second hand info...and it will make him dig for facts.

 

[backbreaker]

i try to leave myself out of situtations like that, even if it is my best friend. Nothing GOOD can come out of it.. now, if he asked my imput, I would tell him what i know, and what I think, but I don't volenteer information like that.

I caught a girl cheating on my best friend.. they had been dating for about a year and a half, this was this time last year... they are still dating now. They way I see it is, he was cheating on her as well, I would be a hypocrite if I told him what was going on and she had no idea what was going on... this isn't mY relationship therefore it's not MY problem. i have enough problems as it is.

As for me, I figure if I am even in the situtation where I think my GF is cheating on me, it's my fault for not leaving her.. I've never had a situtation where my gut told me something was wrong with this girl or a relationship and it not be right

 

[Hawke]

Well, if you tell your friend he might not believe you. If you confront the girl she will deny it and then likely try to casue a rift between you and her boyfriend. She could even tell him you hit on her or touched her inappropriately or something.

If you tell him that someone told you she was cheating but that you don't know for a fact, that should take the heat off you because you're giving him second hand info...and it will make him dig for facts.

Those are possibilities, yes. Depends on what the guy and the girl is like. Confronting anyone without evidence is never wise, they can just turn things back on you easily and you come off worse. So if you have any kind of evidence, then confront her or tell him and let them do what they feel they need to do.

Personally if i didn't have any evidence i'd create a story to get my friend thinking about the possibility of being cheated on. Mix into the story any signs you know she's made of cheating, and let his mind do the rest. I hate the method, yet anything more direct without evidence is just going to end badly. Even with evidence, it's going to end badly in the short term if you get involved.

I don't envy the position you are in.

 

[sifer]

Letme put it this way. My mind is killing me so things may not be coherent.

"Hey I'm going to get home early from meeting today."

"Uh ok hold on."

I hang up. Something's wrong. Since I was already close home.

I open door. See the guy's **** in her *****.

I wanted to go on a killing spree.

I got cheated on.

 

[Scrumtulescence]

Letme put it this way. My mind is killing me so things may not be coherent.

"Hey I'm going to get home early from meeting today."

"Uh ok hold on."

I hang up. Something's wrong. Since I was already close home.

I open door. See the guy's **** in her *****.

I wanted to go on a killing spree.

I got cheated on.

Damn, that sucks. What a ho. Was that recently?

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Personally if she's a friend, I'd keep out of it. I caught one of my guy friends cheating on his girlfriend a while ago, but I never said anything, because that's his (and her) problem.

Whatever you do, keep in mind that if you get involved in your friends' love life, it WILL be messy. For you.

 

[Cruise]

Sounds like your bud could use some game enhancing supplements...

 

[insanity]

hey sifer, a couple of days ago while getting a coffee. i seen my friends girlfriend eating lunch with another guy. i thought nothing of it, because maybe they were co-workers eating lunch together. so i went back to my car to have a smoke and to my surprise when they were leaving they kissed and it was no peck. i was really shocked. and the crazy part about it is, their suppose to be getting married this summer!

i think i may have been cheated on once. i never did catch her, but this rung a bell in my head after being broke up with her months later. i remember watching the maury show on cheaters and my girlfriend at the time looked at me and said "if you cheated on me i don't think i would dump you". "i would be mad at you though". if you really look at that in ********, it's like she was saying if i cheat on you you can only get mad at me.