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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Caught a cold...should I be doing any workout?

trance_addict

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I know that its dangerous to workout (e.g. weightlifting, benching etc) when you have a flu, but what about colds?

Today is my upper body day, and I woke up with a bit of a cold, should I skip my workout today, or should i be okay?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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You'll be fine.
As long as the cold remains in the head (IOW, you're not having lung/respitory problems) you can work out to your hearts content.

Just be considerate of spreading your germs to others in the gym. WHASH YOUR HANDS and don't touch the bars after you've touched your mouth/nose/eyes.

But don't take my word for it. I'm not a doctor.
 

trance_addict

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yea, i do have a bit of chest congestion, but i quit smoking a week ago, so i've been coughing up sh!t anyways.

I'll just do light workout, i dont feel as energized if i dont do at least a bit
 

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Your recovery time won't be 100% but unless its a serious illness, it won't affect you drastically. Make sure you up your nutrient intake (esp. fluids) for the duration of your cold to help with the double battle your body will have (muscle recovery and the fight on the cold)
 

spesmilitis

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depends. I usually workout when I have a cold, but only if the cold doesn't affect my mind. Like, sometimes I feel dizzy when i have a cold, thats when i don't workout. But if i only have a sorethrought, stuffy nose, then i'll workout. Working out actually helps.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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