Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Caught a cold...should I be doing any workout?

trance_addict

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I know that its dangerous to workout (e.g. weightlifting, benching etc) when you have a flu, but what about colds?

Today is my upper body day, and I woke up with a bit of a cold, should I skip my workout today, or should i be okay?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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You'll be fine.
As long as the cold remains in the head (IOW, you're not having lung/respitory problems) you can work out to your hearts content.

Just be considerate of spreading your germs to others in the gym. WHASH YOUR HANDS and don't touch the bars after you've touched your mouth/nose/eyes.

But don't take my word for it. I'm not a doctor.
 

trance_addict

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yea, i do have a bit of chest congestion, but i quit smoking a week ago, so i've been coughing up sh!t anyways.

I'll just do light workout, i dont feel as energized if i dont do at least a bit
 

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Your recovery time won't be 100% but unless its a serious illness, it won't affect you drastically. Make sure you up your nutrient intake (esp. fluids) for the duration of your cold to help with the double battle your body will have (muscle recovery and the fight on the cold)
 

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depends. I usually workout when I have a cold, but only if the cold doesn't affect my mind. Like, sometimes I feel dizzy when i have a cold, thats when i don't workout. But if i only have a sorethrought, stuffy nose, then i'll workout. Working out actually helps.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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