"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Caught a cold...should I be doing any workout?

trance_addict

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I know that its dangerous to workout (e.g. weightlifting, benching etc) when you have a flu, but what about colds?

Today is my upper body day, and I woke up with a bit of a cold, should I skip my workout today, or should i be okay?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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You'll be fine.
As long as the cold remains in the head (IOW, you're not having lung/respitory problems) you can work out to your hearts content.

Just be considerate of spreading your germs to others in the gym. WHASH YOUR HANDS and don't touch the bars after you've touched your mouth/nose/eyes.

But don't take my word for it. I'm not a doctor.
 

trance_addict

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yea, i do have a bit of chest congestion, but i quit smoking a week ago, so i've been coughing up sh!t anyways.

I'll just do light workout, i dont feel as energized if i dont do at least a bit
 

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Your recovery time won't be 100% but unless its a serious illness, it won't affect you drastically. Make sure you up your nutrient intake (esp. fluids) for the duration of your cold to help with the double battle your body will have (muscle recovery and the fight on the cold)
 

spesmilitis

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depends. I usually workout when I have a cold, but only if the cold doesn't affect my mind. Like, sometimes I feel dizzy when i have a cold, thats when i don't workout. But if i only have a sorethrought, stuffy nose, then i'll workout. Working out actually helps.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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