"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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jiza101

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ok ok,
first off all im not just chasing one chick, but i need advice on a certain one. Well shes new to the school, she hangs out with nerds. I hang with the "cool" group, i spoke to her in my math class yesterday, and then for like 1 hour on a spare, with my mates, but it was 80% me just talking to her while my mates shat on to eatchother. Anyways i read a post which stated once shes spoken to u for a long enough time for her to know what ure like HIDE, and let her catch u or somethin like that. Im not sure if she wants me though, so im wondering if i need to talk to her a bit more. Anyways can you gimme some advice please to help me get this chick. The other chicks im approaching at school, are "easier". I see this chick like only in maths class which is like 4 times a week. I dont see her at lunch or anything, i play soccer with mates every lunch.
Advice please guys
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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wel, im not quite sure if you've given her much to miss about you yet but...

tel u wat. if you really do wanna 'hide' by letting her miss you, try doing this. just hang out and have fun whenever you're with your mates.

one good opportunity would be to let her see you playing soccer. (hoping that you're not getting slammed, anyway.)

and besides, since she's gonna be hanging out with the nerds, it's not gonna be so hard when she finally gets to hang out with a DJ. i mean, nerds are supposedly nice guys. that's what i think.

keep us updated.
 

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I think what Alejandro was saying about soccer could be pretty sweet...If you guys are pretty good (or humorously terrible), you could drop something about her watching one of your games. Something like:

You: "blah blah blah"
Her: "blah blah blah"
You: "Yeah, I've got this big soccer game <whenever>. You should make some room on your schedule and come check it out."
Her: "Do me."

Something like that anyway...you get the idea.

I'm not sure if you really need to "hide" from her...Just dont always always always be availible. That, and dont have three hour conversations with her. A good rule of thumb is, "the less you know about someone, the more there is to talk about."
 

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haha,
i got her to have a kick of soccer with me before lunch. She wouldnt kick the ball though lol.. She watched us **** around for a few mins then she left, then lunch started. As for my conversation i realise i ****ed it up. We spoke for like 45 min about eatchother, not about the unexpected calls.. I regret that majorly... So yer, u think i should just not talk to her to much like i am now, and just let her chase me ???
What if she dont chase me, i might need to show her more bout me and my good qualitites :?
lol our conversation was around a few of my mates at a coffee place. she sat infront of me and my mates next to us. We were on the end. Anyways cause shes new i just asked her about her past, and what subjects shes doing.. I even bagged her friend LOL, which i should not have done but hay she even laughed cause everyone bags her friend who has the fattest legs u have ever seen.. but yer it was good to have a convo with her, although i can see it was boring.. I see her on monday in maths, u recon i just lay low, OR i can speak to my friend/hers who sits next to her the whole class LOL. Im sure she might get a bit cut.
Anyway more ideas
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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