"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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catching her in the act!

blackbelt2k

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Whats up guys? I've been away for a while, working on me. I've since graduated college and have a job back in the city. I must say the difference between college women and working women is big.
My question is about how to catch them looking, yes it strokes my ego, but I think it'd get a good smile out of me and the hottie, and open the door for convo. I've invested alot of time into myself, and can honestly say, im fvking hott. I catch the older women, starring and pretty much eye-fawking me. The younger ones, however, 21-27ish, are more subtle. I have only caught a few, and that is usually when I catch them checking me out with the aid of a mirror/reflection.
So my question to you guys is how the hell do i catch the younger ones???
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Huh? I don't understand the question...

you want to see more girls checking you out?
 

blackbelt2k

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I'm curious as to what signs to look for to catch them. Besides the eye contact, you'll notice when they give you the up and down with their eyes. The younger ones just don't seem to be as direct or as ballsy as the older women. But I'd rather catch a younger woman.
 

RokyRoc

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Get a really good camera. Turn around real quick and snap a photo. Look at it then tell her "Hey I noticed you checking me out, but damn girl you gotta be more subtle"

But seriously, do they have to check you out before you start flirting with them?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AKA FLEX

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If you know you're that hot, you should be able to walk up to any girl with confidence without confirming that she checked you out first, so your question seems irrelevant. Are you actually trying to get laid or just stroke your ego by knowing that girls are looking your way?
 
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