"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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catching her in the act!

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blackbelt2k

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Whats up guys? I've been away for a while, working on me. I've since graduated college and have a job back in the city. I must say the difference between college women and working women is big.
My question is about how to catch them looking, yes it strokes my ego, but I think it'd get a good smile out of me and the hottie, and open the door for convo. I've invested alot of time into myself, and can honestly say, im fvking hott. I catch the older women, starring and pretty much eye-fawking me. The younger ones, however, 21-27ish, are more subtle. I have only caught a few, and that is usually when I catch them checking me out with the aid of a mirror/reflection.
So my question to you guys is how the hell do i catch the younger ones???
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Huh? I don't understand the question...

you want to see more girls checking you out?
 
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blackbelt2k

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I'm curious as to what signs to look for to catch them. Besides the eye contact, you'll notice when they give you the up and down with their eyes. The younger ones just don't seem to be as direct or as ballsy as the older women. But I'd rather catch a younger woman.
 
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Get a really good camera. Turn around real quick and snap a photo. Look at it then tell her "Hey I noticed you checking me out, but damn girl you gotta be more subtle"

But seriously, do they have to check you out before you start flirting with them?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you know you're that hot, you should be able to walk up to any girl with confidence without confirming that she checked you out first, so your question seems irrelevant. Are you actually trying to get laid or just stroke your ego by knowing that girls are looking your way?
 
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