"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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catching her in the act!

blackbelt2k

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Whats up guys? I've been away for a while, working on me. I've since graduated college and have a job back in the city. I must say the difference between college women and working women is big.
My question is about how to catch them looking, yes it strokes my ego, but I think it'd get a good smile out of me and the hottie, and open the door for convo. I've invested alot of time into myself, and can honestly say, im fvking hott. I catch the older women, starring and pretty much eye-fawking me. The younger ones, however, 21-27ish, are more subtle. I have only caught a few, and that is usually when I catch them checking me out with the aid of a mirror/reflection.
So my question to you guys is how the hell do i catch the younger ones???
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Huh? I don't understand the question...

you want to see more girls checking you out?
 

blackbelt2k

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I'm curious as to what signs to look for to catch them. Besides the eye contact, you'll notice when they give you the up and down with their eyes. The younger ones just don't seem to be as direct or as ballsy as the older women. But I'd rather catch a younger woman.
 

RokyRoc

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Get a really good camera. Turn around real quick and snap a photo. Look at it then tell her "Hey I noticed you checking me out, but damn girl you gotta be more subtle"

But seriously, do they have to check you out before you start flirting with them?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AKA FLEX

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If you know you're that hot, you should be able to walk up to any girl with confidence without confirming that she checked you out first, so your question seems irrelevant. Are you actually trying to get laid or just stroke your ego by knowing that girls are looking your way?
 
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