"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Catch and Release as a form of warm up and momentum shifter

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Anyone here do Catch and release when doing pick up? It’s like a ritual to experience fishermen, something they do for good luck and to remind them of abundance . It’s like a momentum shifter and will put you on a not so needy vibe, I tried it at a local bowling alley out here and I got two numbers afterwards because it helps put you in a good frame and the girls can feel that vibe. What do you guys think? It’s like talking to coffee shop baristas as a warm up, but possibly better.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anyone here do Catch and release when doing pick up? It’s like a ritual to experience fishermen, something they do for good luck and to remind them of abundance . It’s like a momentum shifter and will put you on a not so needy vibe, I tried it at a local bowling alley out here and I got two numbers afterwards because it helps put you in a good frame and the girls can feel that vibe. What do you guys think? It’s like talking to coffee shop baristas as a warm up, but possibly better.
so you are practice getting phone numbers. that's actually good. at what point do you release ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi Memoirs,
Love your humour,I always give my liberated fish a kiss before I put them back...Suggest you do that with your Women LOL.
 
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You are one weird dude.
I'll cut him some slack...


What he's trying to say is ;
Sometimes you wanna " plant a seed" and let a woman know you are alive. You might greet her, have a really " small conversation " and then poof you just vanish. Stick and move stick and move.

Might have some merit when you go order a drink, pass by a woman and ofcourse you're vibe/ aura is topnotch that night.

For some guys this might work, because that particular woman might follow you somewhat and as the night progresses and people get more drunk and loose you might continue the interaction when the iron is even hotter.
 

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I'll cut him some slack...


What he's trying to say is ;
Sometimes you wanna " plant a seed" and let a woman know you are alive. You might greet her, have a really " small conversation " and then poof you just vanish. Stick and move stick and move.

Might have some merit when you go order a drink, pass by a woman and ofcourse you're vibe/ aura is topnotch that night.

For some guys this might work, because that particular woman might follow you somewhat and as the night progresses and people get more drunk and loose you might continue the interaction when the iron is even hotter.
That's honestly how I interpret it. I flirt around on the go just as a habit. I stop myself though as I'm happy with where I am at the moment. I think it's in every guys nature to some degree to know that he's still "got it."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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