Catch 22

[Stallionstud]

So here’s the thing, I just moved to a new state where I know no one. In a relatively small city. Here is my problem.

To build a social circle I’m going to bars, brewery’s, music shows, ect talking to people ect. However a majority of the time I’m at these places I’m sitting by myself looking lonely and desperate AF, I’m almost sure this is/has lead to a bad first impression on any potential plates that see this.

I tried being a regular at one place, almost sure one of the bar tenders c blocked me with her friend. So now I try to switch up where I go for beers and when but that’s the best I can do.

Input advice? Hopefully spring/summer weather makes this easier. If I’m in this same position next winter I’m fvcked

 

[wifehunter]

Try not to think about it. Too much effort will put you 'off center'. Focus on other things.

 

[sosousage]

So here’s the thing, I just moved to a new state where I know no one. In a relatively small city. Here is my problem.

To build a social circle I’m going to bars, brewery’s, music shows, ect talking to people ect. However a majority of the time I’m at these places I’m sitting by myself looking lonely and desperate AF, I’m almost sure this is/has lead to a bad first impression on any potential plates that see this.

I tried being a regular at one place, almost sure one of the bar tenders c blocked me with her friend. So now I try to switch up where I go for beers and when but that’s the best I can do.

Input advice? Hopefully spring/summer weather makes this easier. If I’m in this same position next winter I’m fvcked

switch your tinder to gay mode, explain in bio you look just for nonsexual friends, they will still want to meet you

 

[Stallionstud]

switch your tinder to gay mode, explain in bio you look just for nonsexual friends, they will still want to meet you

Lol that’s an option I guess lmao

 

[ubercat]

New in Town meetup groups. Level playing field. And a mixed the sport e.g. futsal. Think first and then with your ****

 

[devilkingx2]

make sure you don't have resting b!tch face, be social and friendly, and I doubt anyone thinks badly of you solely because you don't have a posse following you 24/7

alternatively pay an escort (or two) to go with you places so you're not alone