"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Catch 22

Stallionstud

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So here’s the thing, I just moved to a new state where I know no one. In a relatively small city. Here is my problem.

To build a social circle I’m going to bars, brewery’s, music shows, ect talking to people ect. However a majority of the time I’m at these places I’m sitting by myself looking lonely and desperate AF, I’m almost sure this is/has lead to a bad first impression on any potential plates that see this.

I tried being a regular at one place, almost sure one of the bar tenders c blocked me with her friend. So now I try to switch up where I go for beers and when but that’s the best I can do.

Input advice? Hopefully spring/summer weather makes this easier. If I’m in this same position next winter I’m fvcked
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter

wifehunter

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Try not to think about it. Too much effort will put you 'off center'. Focus on other things.
 
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Stallionstud said:
So here’s the thing, I just moved to a new state where I know no one. In a relatively small city. Here is my problem.

To build a social circle I’m going to bars, brewery’s, music shows, ect talking to people ect. However a majority of the time I’m at these places I’m sitting by myself looking lonely and desperate AF, I’m almost sure this is/has lead to a bad first impression on any potential plates that see this.

I tried being a regular at one place, almost sure one of the bar tenders c blocked me with her friend. So now I try to switch up where I go for beers and when but that’s the best I can do.

Input advice? Hopefully spring/summer weather makes this easier. If I’m in this same position next winter I’m fvcked
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switch your tinder to gay mode, explain in bio you look just for nonsexual friends, they will still want to meet you
 
ubercat

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New in Town meetup groups. Level playing field. And a mixed the sport e.g. futsal. Think first and then with your ****
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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devilkingx2

devilkingx2

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make sure you don't have resting b!tch face, be social and friendly, and I doubt anyone thinks badly of you solely because you don't have a posse following you 24/7

alternatively pay an escort (or two) to go with you places so you're not alone
 
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