"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jwei44

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Well. I had been talking to a girl for 2 months now and last Friday was the first time we met in person because of my shyness. Anyway. I chose a bad day cause she was mad but she promised me we could
talk Monday. Now I need some help on how to start and keep a conversation going. Any ideas?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wow. Bit of a broad question don't you think?

Anyway, just talk to the girl like someone you've known forever. Don't overthink it, just talk about whatever comes to mind. Only one way to get good at casual convo, and that's to just get out there and do it. You may have a few setbacks but that's just part of the process.
 
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does something like :hows your day sound so far? then so whatsup? what class you got next? what math you got? - how you doing in it, you need any help?
or should i ask stuff like

what movies you like?
 
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Not quite. If you want to keep a convo going you need something that requires more than a one word answer.

My favorite way to strike up a convo with a girl I know: what's up killer?
 
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Start very general: Hows it going...then use what she says and go off that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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