Casual conversation help

[jwei44]

Well. I had been talking to a girl for 2 months now and last Friday was the first time we met in person because of my shyness. Anyway. I chose a bad day cause she was mad but she promised me we could
talk Monday. Now I need some help on how to start and keep a conversation going. Any ideas?

 

[BlakeW5]

Wow. Bit of a broad question don't you think?

Anyway, just talk to the girl like someone you've known forever. Don't overthink it, just talk about whatever comes to mind. Only one way to get good at casual convo, and that's to just get out there and do it. You may have a few setbacks but that's just part of the process.

 

[jwei44]

questionss

does something like :hows your day sound so far? then so whatsup? what class you got next? what math you got? - how you doing in it, you need any help?
or should i ask stuff like

what movies you like?

 

[BlakeW5]

Not quite. If you want to keep a convo going you need something that requires more than a one word answer.

My favorite way to strike up a convo with a girl I know: what's up killer?

 

[MR MIZUN0]

Start very general: Hows it going...then use what she says and go off that.