"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cashapps, sugar daddies, and the patriarchy

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In my country, selling sexual services is legal - but buying them is not. The reasoning for this is twofold. First, sex workers are victims who don't choose to do it. Second, even if the first point wasn't true, men buying access to female bodies is an oppression they perform as an expression of the patriarchy.

But when I look online now I see women everywhere selling their sexuality for money. Venmo, premium snaps, onlyfans, sugar daddies - it seems to me that many women can't wait to be able to make money by selling their sexuality. How do you guys think this will affect the feminist narrative? will they simply pretend that these women are victims and men are evil oppressors? or will they eventually move against these practices? How long can it keep going before they are forced to confront reality?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In my country, selling sexual services is legal - but buying them is not. The reasoning for this is twofold. First, sex workers are victims who don't choose to do it. Second, even if the first point wasn't true, men buying access to female bodies is an oppression they perform as an expression of the patriarchy.

But when I look online now I see women everywhere selling their sexuality for money. Venmo, premium snaps, onlyfans, sugar daddies - it seems to me that many women can't wait to be able to make money by selling their sexuality. How do you guys think this will affect the feminist narrative? will they simply pretend that these women are victims and men are evil oppressors? or will they eventually move against these practices? How long can it keep going before they are forced to confront reality?
it won't, the go girl is all there is to it,
 

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In my country, selling sexual services is legal - but buying them is not. The reasoning for this is twofold. First, sex workers are victims who don't choose to do it. Second, even if the first point wasn't true, men buying access to female bodies is an oppression they perform as an expression of the patriarchy.

But when I look online now I see women everywhere selling their sexuality for money. Venmo, premium snaps, onlyfans, sugar daddies - it seems to me that many women can't wait to be able to make money by selling their sexuality. How do you guys think this will affect the feminist narrative? will they simply pretend that these women are victims and men are evil oppressors? or will they eventually move against these practices? How long can it keep going before they are forced to confront reality?
They don't mind women taking resources from men as long as they have control over it.
 

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They don't mind women taking resources from men as long as they have control over it.
But they are opposed to state-sanctioned prostitution which exists in other countries in Europe, so this can't be true. I guess unless they think the female prostitutes there don't control it, but then why would they think the cashappers and sugar daddies do.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The feminist narrative:

* women should be allowed to engage in prostitution and other acts of selling sexuality if they choose to do so because it's a form of female empowerment.

* HOWEVER, men who buy these services are evil agents of the male patriarchy and exploiting these women

* BUT, if men don't buy these services they are also evil agents of the male patriarchy because they are denying women a chance to earn

* ALSO, keep in mind that even if a woman chooses to engage in selling sex for money, she didn't really choose to do so, but was rather forced into it by the evil patriarchy....

* AND, to outlaw prostitution is an act of oppression because it is dictating what a woman can or cannot do with her body...... which is also a cog in the evil male patriarchy apparatus.....
 

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The feminist narrative:

* women should be allowed to engage in prostitution and other acts of selling sexuality if they choose to do so because it's a form of female empowerment.

* HOWEVER, men who buy these services are evil agents of the male patriarchy and exploiting these women

* BUT, if men don't buy these services they are also evil agents of the male patriarchy because they are denying women a chance to earn

* ALSO, keep in mind that even if a woman chooses to engage in selling sex for money, she didn't really choose to do so, but was rather forced into it by the evil patriarchy....

* AND, to outlaw prostitution is an act of oppression because it is dictating what a woman can or cannot do with her body...... which is also a cog in the evil male patriarchy apparatus.....
lol, doesn't the female imperative seem like a tired little selfish child made up the rules?
:rofl:
 
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