"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Cashapps, sugar daddies, and the patriarchy

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In my country, selling sexual services is legal - but buying them is not. The reasoning for this is twofold. First, sex workers are victims who don't choose to do it. Second, even if the first point wasn't true, men buying access to female bodies is an oppression they perform as an expression of the patriarchy.

But when I look online now I see women everywhere selling their sexuality for money. Venmo, premium snaps, onlyfans, sugar daddies - it seems to me that many women can't wait to be able to make money by selling their sexuality. How do you guys think this will affect the feminist narrative? will they simply pretend that these women are victims and men are evil oppressors? or will they eventually move against these practices? How long can it keep going before they are forced to confront reality?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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In my country, selling sexual services is legal - but buying them is not. The reasoning for this is twofold. First, sex workers are victims who don't choose to do it. Second, even if the first point wasn't true, men buying access to female bodies is an oppression they perform as an expression of the patriarchy.

But when I look online now I see women everywhere selling their sexuality for money. Venmo, premium snaps, onlyfans, sugar daddies - it seems to me that many women can't wait to be able to make money by selling their sexuality. How do you guys think this will affect the feminist narrative? will they simply pretend that these women are victims and men are evil oppressors? or will they eventually move against these practices? How long can it keep going before they are forced to confront reality?
it won't, the go girl is all there is to it,
 

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In my country, selling sexual services is legal - but buying them is not. The reasoning for this is twofold. First, sex workers are victims who don't choose to do it. Second, even if the first point wasn't true, men buying access to female bodies is an oppression they perform as an expression of the patriarchy.

But when I look online now I see women everywhere selling their sexuality for money. Venmo, premium snaps, onlyfans, sugar daddies - it seems to me that many women can't wait to be able to make money by selling their sexuality. How do you guys think this will affect the feminist narrative? will they simply pretend that these women are victims and men are evil oppressors? or will they eventually move against these practices? How long can it keep going before they are forced to confront reality?
They don't mind women taking resources from men as long as they have control over it.
 

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They don't mind women taking resources from men as long as they have control over it.
But they are opposed to state-sanctioned prostitution which exists in other countries in Europe, so this can't be true. I guess unless they think the female prostitutes there don't control it, but then why would they think the cashappers and sugar daddies do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The feminist narrative:

* women should be allowed to engage in prostitution and other acts of selling sexuality if they choose to do so because it's a form of female empowerment.

* HOWEVER, men who buy these services are evil agents of the male patriarchy and exploiting these women

* BUT, if men don't buy these services they are also evil agents of the male patriarchy because they are denying women a chance to earn

* ALSO, keep in mind that even if a woman chooses to engage in selling sex for money, she didn't really choose to do so, but was rather forced into it by the evil patriarchy....

* AND, to outlaw prostitution is an act of oppression because it is dictating what a woman can or cannot do with her body...... which is also a cog in the evil male patriarchy apparatus.....
 

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The feminist narrative:

* women should be allowed to engage in prostitution and other acts of selling sexuality if they choose to do so because it's a form of female empowerment.

* HOWEVER, men who buy these services are evil agents of the male patriarchy and exploiting these women

* BUT, if men don't buy these services they are also evil agents of the male patriarchy because they are denying women a chance to earn

* ALSO, keep in mind that even if a woman chooses to engage in selling sex for money, she didn't really choose to do so, but was rather forced into it by the evil patriarchy....

* AND, to outlaw prostitution is an act of oppression because it is dictating what a woman can or cannot do with her body...... which is also a cog in the evil male patriarchy apparatus.....
lol, doesn't the female imperative seem like a tired little selfish child made up the rules?
:rofl:
 
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