"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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case of oneitis, and all rapport is lost..

gimmeyofonenumba

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I started talking to this one chick, in one of my classes, the class is pretty big about 50 peeps or so. Anyways, i talked to her during class, we kinda goofed off when it got kinda boring. Then it came time for a group project, it was me her and a few other people in the group, I thought it would be smooth sailing, I applied some kino, and she fed back some as well, but as I was talking to her, i didnt really feel a connection. So things started to fade, then I frickin developed oneitis, now i always think about her, and i havent even said a word to her within a few days, she frickin sits right near the exit door, and zips right outa class when its over, doesnt even give me time to glance her direction. Should I next her? I'd really like to salvage something from this, but if not, I NEED TO GET HER OUTA MY HEAD! We have a final in 2 days, and i was gonna email some peeps out to a study session, should i invite her? maybe say something like...stop running away, all the time.?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

Caveman

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Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
but as I was talking to her, i didnt really feel a connection.
She is not interested. Forget her.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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ya... thats what im thinking, funny thing is, last time i talked to her, i was really gonna lay it on heavy, and ask her out to lunch, but instead i just talked with her to the parking lot, because i had to meet up with some peeps. I feel like giving her a call and saying yo, wtf i wanna talk to you. Dont have her # though...
 

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Then it came time for a group project, it was me her and a few other people in the group, I thought it would be smooth sailing, I applied some kino
You don't know her well enough to apply kino or even know that she has a bf.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Caveman

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Dude! She is not interested. Forget her. Any time or effort you spend on this girl will only drive her further away. I know it's not easy but you are waisting your time.

Get studying for your finals, and when you're done, go out and focus on other girls.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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And stop sarging one woman at a time. You're setting yourself up for one-itis whenever you do that.
 
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