"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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kelv

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I have been spending too much time on this DJ stuffs, watching seminars, reading DJ books so much so that I feel I could have spent all this time on my career and future.
I have got great plans mapped out for my career and tonnes of things to accomplish eg to help shape the world in a better way, earn more money for my family, carve a name for myself but when I feel the loneliness creeping in, I goes right back to the DJ stuffs hoping it will help me attract women. I wouldn’t compromise risking my future for all these DJ stuffs but its seriously taking up alot of my time. It seems that Im so craving some female company. What should I do man!?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Why do you make it sound like it's one or the other?

You can keep control of your career and personal goals and still get women. It's not like all the successful people you read about spent 100% of their time building their lives, and THEN got women.
 

NorwegianDJ

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Dude. You simply stop reading material, and spend that time going out. It doesn't sound like you are actually going out, meeting and approaching women. Satisfy that craving for female company, cause your DJ articles and right hand aren't gonna do that for you.

Ultimately, do what makes you happy.
 

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kelv said:
I have been spending too much time on this DJ stuffs, watching seminars, reading DJ books so much so that I feel I could have spent all this time on my career and future.
You don't know it but you have. Women are just a reflection of the world. They don't like you for who you are, they like you for what you can do for them.

If you ever manage to find one who likes you for who you are (need to be absolutely sure) then f*cking marry the girl right then and there.

I have got great plans mapped out for my career and tonnes of things to accomplish eg to help shape the world in a better way, earn more money for my family, carve a name for myself but when I feel the loneliness creeping in, I goes right back to the DJ stuffs hoping it will help me attract women. I wouldn’t compromise risking my future for all these DJ stuffs but its seriously taking up alot of my time. It seems that Im so craving some female company. What should I do man!?
I think you should get some female company like you want. Life isn't worth living if it's all work. You need some time to play. Find a balance that works for you.
 

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Every single American prick believes he is going to change the world! Haha! What a surprise you are going to have. 20 years from now you will still be jerking into the toilet. Only difference is you will have given up about changing the world and instead will be dealing with kids and a wife that you can't stand.

Do you know how I know? Because I was once you!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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