"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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kelv

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I have been spending too much time on this DJ stuffs, watching seminars, reading DJ books so much so that I feel I could have spent all this time on my career and future.
I have got great plans mapped out for my career and tonnes of things to accomplish eg to help shape the world in a better way, earn more money for my family, carve a name for myself but when I feel the loneliness creeping in, I goes right back to the DJ stuffs hoping it will help me attract women. I wouldn’t compromise risking my future for all these DJ stuffs but its seriously taking up alot of my time. It seems that Im so craving some female company. What should I do man!?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Why do you make it sound like it's one or the other?

You can keep control of your career and personal goals and still get women. It's not like all the successful people you read about spent 100% of their time building their lives, and THEN got women.
 

NorwegianDJ

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Dude. You simply stop reading material, and spend that time going out. It doesn't sound like you are actually going out, meeting and approaching women. Satisfy that craving for female company, cause your DJ articles and right hand aren't gonna do that for you.

Ultimately, do what makes you happy.
 

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kelv said:
I have been spending too much time on this DJ stuffs, watching seminars, reading DJ books so much so that I feel I could have spent all this time on my career and future.
You don't know it but you have. Women are just a reflection of the world. They don't like you for who you are, they like you for what you can do for them.

If you ever manage to find one who likes you for who you are (need to be absolutely sure) then f*cking marry the girl right then and there.

I have got great plans mapped out for my career and tonnes of things to accomplish eg to help shape the world in a better way, earn more money for my family, carve a name for myself but when I feel the loneliness creeping in, I goes right back to the DJ stuffs hoping it will help me attract women. I wouldn’t compromise risking my future for all these DJ stuffs but its seriously taking up alot of my time. It seems that Im so craving some female company. What should I do man!?
I think you should get some female company like you want. Life isn't worth living if it's all work. You need some time to play. Find a balance that works for you.
 

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Every single American prick believes he is going to change the world! Haha! What a surprise you are going to have. 20 years from now you will still be jerking into the toilet. Only difference is you will have given up about changing the world and instead will be dealing with kids and a wife that you can't stand.

Do you know how I know? Because I was once you!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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