"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cardio after Lifting weights

WrEcKLeSS2000

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Someone just told me that you shouldn't do cardio directly after lifting weights so your muscles can rest. Is it ok to do cardio after lifting weights, because that's what I've been doing. I haven't had any problems with that and I've seen alot of people lift weights and do cardio as well in the same day.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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[S]alvatore

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It's fine to do, moreso for people who have hectic schedules or not enough time to perform cardio in the morning, then weights later during the day. After your weights session drink half of your protein shake, do your cardio, then drink the other half.
 

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It normally takes at least a day or two to recover a muscle, longer if you're starting out and lifting hard, so the recovery & eating period can last a while.

Just be sure to adjust calories for it and you'll still make gains.
 

Warboss Alex

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if your cardio is intense sprints then no, don't do these after weights.

but a low-intensity walk post-workout will not compromise your recovery, in fact quite the opposite, it will encourage blood flow and thus enhance recovery.
 
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