PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
So I've taken up some peoples advice and will start to work at a Nissan Dealership next week. Can people who have worked at a dealership and know a little something give a playa some advice and experiences. Thanks all.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Sir, this woman has never been involved in a gangbang.Fatal Jay said:I buy a car like finding a wife
she got to be flawless outside and inside
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Not true. I sold cars for a while. Half my sales came from b-backs, people that came in, left for whatever reason, and came back later.BeginningDJ said:Selling cars is like clubbing, if you don't close the first time, you won't see them again.
This is very true. IN reality, selling cars is like Day / real life game. You have to learn how to give your client space and not fret. You have to learn how to build a bond with a client to the point where you aren't worried about them going to a new store and even if they do, you aren't all that worried about that salesman outselling you. Alot of why i really don't give a **** about other guys talking to girls i'm talking to comes from selling cars, you have to get used to it. It is what it is. the only thing i can do is make a good enough impression to where i know he can't match it.taiyuu_otoko said:Not true. I sold cars for a while. Half my sales came from b-backs, people that came in, left for whatever reason, and came back later.
People who come in cold have about a 10% closing rate. People that come back have about a 50% closing rate.
My advice? Focus on the numbers. Don't get attached to any ONE customer. ALWAYS do a post "sale" breakdown to see what you could have done differently.
One thing to focus on is building real and honest rapport, take your time.
Most car salesman are so broke and desperate for a sale, and also believe "If I don't close them now I never will" they consequently push them away.
Take your time, build some honest rapport, find out why they're shopping for a new car, what kinds of things they're looking for etc, then show them what you've got and show them why what you've got matches what they're looking for.
This will also get you a lot of referrals. If you push too hard, you may get plenty of sales, but you won't get any referrals.
Most guys that had been working at my shop for more than six months were getting a majority of their sales from referrals.
Also keep in mind that the average joe citizen is terrified of walking on a car lot, for fear of being taken advantage of.
Take your time, build a relationship, find out what they want, and make it an obvious choice.
that's really good. but once you get really good and figure out the pricing structure that's when you start to make the big boy money. i made a little bit under 3 grand on one car deal once. ME. not the dealership. me. learn your cars that have dealer cash. learn your cars that have been on the lot for more than 1 year if there are any they always have rebates on them. spend 20-30 mintues a day studying your inventory and figuring out which cars you can put people on with ****ty credit that you don't have a lot of money in but can carry some LTV. this is how you start making big boy money.I sold 2 cars and made 600$ personally for one of the cars I made and got a bonus for the second one I sold
Interesting. So a good time for me to buy a car would be the last few days of a month?backbreaker said:the only time i would get pushy somewhat was the last 2-3 days of them onth if i had to hit a number to get a bonus.
the last DAY of the monthsageproduct said:Interesting. So a good time for me to buy a car would be the last few days of a month?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
they go out of their way to not tale salesman how much cars cost / pricing strcutres.PrettyBoyAJ said:Backbreaker, good game right there. Could you elaborate on studying the pricd structure please. Your post has been very helpful.
okay.backbreaker said:they go out of their way to not tale salesman how much cars cost / pricing strcutres.
I will elb on this later this evening, i have to take my wife somewhere and i'm late.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.