PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
So I've taken up some peoples advice and will start to work at a Nissan Dealership next week. Can people who have worked at a dealership and know a little something give a playa some advice and experiences. Thanks all.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sir, this woman has never been involved in a gangbang.Fatal Jay said:I buy a car like finding a wife
she got to be flawless outside and inside
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Not true. I sold cars for a while. Half my sales came from b-backs, people that came in, left for whatever reason, and came back later.BeginningDJ said:Selling cars is like clubbing, if you don't close the first time, you won't see them again.
This is very true. IN reality, selling cars is like Day / real life game. You have to learn how to give your client space and not fret. You have to learn how to build a bond with a client to the point where you aren't worried about them going to a new store and even if they do, you aren't all that worried about that salesman outselling you. Alot of why i really don't give a **** about other guys talking to girls i'm talking to comes from selling cars, you have to get used to it. It is what it is. the only thing i can do is make a good enough impression to where i know he can't match it.taiyuu_otoko said:Not true. I sold cars for a while. Half my sales came from b-backs, people that came in, left for whatever reason, and came back later.
People who come in cold have about a 10% closing rate. People that come back have about a 50% closing rate.
My advice? Focus on the numbers. Don't get attached to any ONE customer. ALWAYS do a post "sale" breakdown to see what you could have done differently.
One thing to focus on is building real and honest rapport, take your time.
Most car salesman are so broke and desperate for a sale, and also believe "If I don't close them now I never will" they consequently push them away.
Take your time, build some honest rapport, find out why they're shopping for a new car, what kinds of things they're looking for etc, then show them what you've got and show them why what you've got matches what they're looking for.
This will also get you a lot of referrals. If you push too hard, you may get plenty of sales, but you won't get any referrals.
Most guys that had been working at my shop for more than six months were getting a majority of their sales from referrals.
Also keep in mind that the average joe citizen is terrified of walking on a car lot, for fear of being taken advantage of.
Take your time, build a relationship, find out what they want, and make it an obvious choice.
that's really good. but once you get really good and figure out the pricing structure that's when you start to make the big boy money. i made a little bit under 3 grand on one car deal once. ME. not the dealership. me. learn your cars that have dealer cash. learn your cars that have been on the lot for more than 1 year if there are any they always have rebates on them. spend 20-30 mintues a day studying your inventory and figuring out which cars you can put people on with ****ty credit that you don't have a lot of money in but can carry some LTV. this is how you start making big boy money.I sold 2 cars and made 600$ personally for one of the cars I made and got a bonus for the second one I sold
Interesting. So a good time for me to buy a car would be the last few days of a month?backbreaker said:the only time i would get pushy somewhat was the last 2-3 days of them onth if i had to hit a number to get a bonus.
the last DAY of the monthsageproduct said:Interesting. So a good time for me to buy a car would be the last few days of a month?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
they go out of their way to not tale salesman how much cars cost / pricing strcutres.PrettyBoyAJ said:Backbreaker, good game right there. Could you elaborate on studying the pricd structure please. Your post has been very helpful.
okay.backbreaker said:they go out of their way to not tale salesman how much cars cost / pricing strcutres.
I will elb on this later this evening, i have to take my wife somewhere and i'm late.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.