"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Car Insurance Discrimination

BigLebowski1

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Why is it that women get lower car insurance rates than men? I don't buy this "studies show men are higher risk driver." If a study showed that black drivers were higher risk, would it be alright to charge them more across the board? Of course not. There would be lawsuits.

My sister, who is 17 years old, has had 3 tickets and been in 2 accidents. She had a suspended license for 6 months. I am 20 and have never had a ticket nor accident. She has lower car insurance rates than me. Why is this legal?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Julian

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because its true.

You think these insurance companys are running some kind of feminazo conspiracy?

An Insurance company is a business out to make money. Remember that.
 

BigLebowski1

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Originally posted by Julian
because its true.

You think these insurance companys are running some kind of feminazo conspiracy?

An Insurance company is a business out to make money. Remember that.
No, but why is it allowed to happen. It would not be allowed to happen by the government if any other group but men were charged higher. If Gays, Blacks, Jews, etc got charged higher (even if the studies said they were higher risk) it would be stopped.
 

Levex

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Men drive more aggressively and women just drive worse. Driving aggressive has potential for more serious accidents and injuries.

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p.s. compare the ratio of average salary and average insurance rate and you'll see they are about the same for men and women.
 

Abbott

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Ya...I know what you mean. I drive safely. Sometimes even old people pass me (but only the old people who happen to drive really fast, and some do).

But my auto insurance still costs me more per month than what my mother or father pay over six months.

But then again, my father has never *knock on wood* been in an accident (where he was at fault) during his entire time of driving. Ditto for my mother, and they're both in their 50s.

Ben
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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