"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Car Insurance Discrimination

BigLebowski1

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Why is it that women get lower car insurance rates than men? I don't buy this "studies show men are higher risk driver." If a study showed that black drivers were higher risk, would it be alright to charge them more across the board? Of course not. There would be lawsuits.

My sister, who is 17 years old, has had 3 tickets and been in 2 accidents. She had a suspended license for 6 months. I am 20 and have never had a ticket nor accident. She has lower car insurance rates than me. Why is this legal?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julian

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because its true.

You think these insurance companys are running some kind of feminazo conspiracy?

An Insurance company is a business out to make money. Remember that.
 

BigLebowski1

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Originally posted by Julian
because its true.

You think these insurance companys are running some kind of feminazo conspiracy?

An Insurance company is a business out to make money. Remember that.
No, but why is it allowed to happen. It would not be allowed to happen by the government if any other group but men were charged higher. If Gays, Blacks, Jews, etc got charged higher (even if the studies said they were higher risk) it would be stopped.
 

Levex

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Men drive more aggressively and women just drive worse. Driving aggressive has potential for more serious accidents and injuries.

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p.s. compare the ratio of average salary and average insurance rate and you'll see they are about the same for men and women.
 

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Ya...I know what you mean. I drive safely. Sometimes even old people pass me (but only the old people who happen to drive really fast, and some do).

But my auto insurance still costs me more per month than what my mother or father pay over six months.

But then again, my father has never *knock on wood* been in an accident (where he was at fault) during his entire time of driving. Ditto for my mother, and they're both in their 50s.

Ben
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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