"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Capitalize every chance?

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The question is: should you bang a girl, independently of how attractive she is?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, it's been a while but I wouldn't consider myself 'desperate'. But she's being a real nag and perhaps a little action would shut her up :p
 
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Hb 7 and up. Hell yeah you should.
Below 7 and I wouldn't even try to hit her in the first place, straight to the friend zone.
 
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Are you attracted to her or not?
There's a lot more to sexual enjoyment than perceived hotness. You could have god-awful boring sex with a model and then mind-blowing on-every-piece-of-furniture sex with an ugly fat girl. Your friends aren't as impressed, but are you doing it for them?
Also, you might be willing to try out some more advanced sexual techniques than on a girl you're sub-consciously worried about impressing.

Don't do it if she doesn't even turn you on in the least. Why put yourself through that just for a +1?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mike32ct

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seloifter said:
Are you attracted to her or not?
There's a lot more to sexual enjoyment than perceived hotness. You could have god-awful boring sex with a model and then mind-blowing on-every-piece-of-furniture sex with an ugly fat girl. Your friends aren't as impressed, but are you doing it for them?
Also, you might be willing to try out some more advanced sexual techniques than on a girl you're sub-consciously worried about impressing.

Don't do it if she doesn't even turn you on in the least. Why put yourself through that just for a +1?
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^This.

It's not about seizing EVERY opportunity. It's about seizing those opporutunities YOU (and Mr. Happy lol) wants.
 
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