"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Capitalize every chance?

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The question is: should you bang a girl, independently of how attractive she is?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well, it's been a while but I wouldn't consider myself 'desperate'. But she's being a real nag and perhaps a little action would shut her up :p
 
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Hb 7 and up. Hell yeah you should.
Below 7 and I wouldn't even try to hit her in the first place, straight to the friend zone.
 
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Are you attracted to her or not?
There's a lot more to sexual enjoyment than perceived hotness. You could have god-awful boring sex with a model and then mind-blowing on-every-piece-of-furniture sex with an ugly fat girl. Your friends aren't as impressed, but are you doing it for them?
Also, you might be willing to try out some more advanced sexual techniques than on a girl you're sub-consciously worried about impressing.

Don't do it if she doesn't even turn you on in the least. Why put yourself through that just for a +1?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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seloifter said:
Are you attracted to her or not?
There's a lot more to sexual enjoyment than perceived hotness. You could have god-awful boring sex with a model and then mind-blowing on-every-piece-of-furniture sex with an ugly fat girl. Your friends aren't as impressed, but are you doing it for them?
Also, you might be willing to try out some more advanced sexual techniques than on a girl you're sub-consciously worried about impressing.

Don't do it if she doesn't even turn you on in the least. Why put yourself through that just for a +1?
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^This.

It's not about seizing EVERY opportunity. It's about seizing those opporutunities YOU (and Mr. Happy lol) wants.
 
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