"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Capitalize every chance?

SolidGold

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The question is: should you bang a girl, independently of how attractive she is?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, it's been a while but I wouldn't consider myself 'desperate'. But she's being a real nag and perhaps a little action would shut her up :p
 

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Hb 7 and up. Hell yeah you should.
Below 7 and I wouldn't even try to hit her in the first place, straight to the friend zone.
 

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Are you attracted to her or not?
There's a lot more to sexual enjoyment than perceived hotness. You could have god-awful boring sex with a model and then mind-blowing on-every-piece-of-furniture sex with an ugly fat girl. Your friends aren't as impressed, but are you doing it for them?
Also, you might be willing to try out some more advanced sexual techniques than on a girl you're sub-consciously worried about impressing.

Don't do it if she doesn't even turn you on in the least. Why put yourself through that just for a +1?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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seloifter said:
Are you attracted to her or not?
There's a lot more to sexual enjoyment than perceived hotness. You could have god-awful boring sex with a model and then mind-blowing on-every-piece-of-furniture sex with an ugly fat girl. Your friends aren't as impressed, but are you doing it for them?
Also, you might be willing to try out some more advanced sexual techniques than on a girl you're sub-consciously worried about impressing.

Don't do it if she doesn't even turn you on in the least. Why put yourself through that just for a +1?
^This.

It's not about seizing EVERY opportunity. It's about seizing those opporutunities YOU (and Mr. Happy lol) wants.
 
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