"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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can't walk up to that girl? here's why (probably)For LTR searchers

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You gotta think of that girl as a person, a human being, a "friend".
emphasis on friend. get those romantic ideas out of your head about you and her getting together sharing romantic moments. If you approach her as a friend then it cuts the pressure by at least half, or maybe more. comment on something she says. if it goes further than friendship then good. Sometimes you will find out that she isn't a right partner for you and yall will remain friends.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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He's right. I've just kinda fell on to this too. Before I would even talk to a girl I would think of all these scenarios of asking her out or banging her or getting rejected or what she's like etc. Block out that crap anyway you can. Try to scream "SHUT UP CHUMP" in your head and count 1 2 3 then boom do whatever.
 
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