"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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can't walk up to that girl? here's why (probably)For LTR searchers

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You gotta think of that girl as a person, a human being, a "friend".
emphasis on friend. get those romantic ideas out of your head about you and her getting together sharing romantic moments. If you approach her as a friend then it cuts the pressure by at least half, or maybe more. comment on something she says. if it goes further than friendship then good. Sometimes you will find out that she isn't a right partner for you and yall will remain friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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He's right. I've just kinda fell on to this too. Before I would even talk to a girl I would think of all these scenarios of asking her out or banging her or getting rejected or what she's like etc. Block out that crap anyway you can. Try to scream "SHUT UP CHUMP" in your head and count 1 2 3 then boom do whatever.
 
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