"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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partyforlife

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While walking around campus I find many oppurtinities to open sets. However, I simply cannot find something to say that will carry on a conversation. Ne one have good openers?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JDA70

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You can say HI and open
with and opinion opener.
 
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I really hate the social conditioning in the human society. Male animals just do it with the female. Perhaps after fighting with a competitor. Life would be so much simpler and richer if we could do so instead of going through the stupid drama of speaking some crap or asking for an opinion which nobody cares to think about.

PS: Please don't remove my account.
 

Dedication

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AreYouSingleFemale said:
I really hate the social conditioning in the human society. Male animals just do it with the female.
Two males humping eagother?

Anyway if you want an opening line just get some before you go out. Write them down so you won't forget them.
 
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Groovy

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Dedication said:
What do you want? Two males humping eagother?
THAT was the best you could think of?! CMON!

Don't bash the guy, he has a point. Especially don't bash the guy with a UNFUNNY answer...

If you can't REALLY think of something... Well... No one REALLY cares, that's for sure. 90% is how you say, what you say, how your body language is, the EXACT words are JUST 10 %. JUST 10.

Compare a alpha male with a beta male. The difference is VERY NOTICABLE, even if they are speaking a different language, you can tell FOR SURE, wow, this guy has it!

Even so, read some humor (This goes to deciation too :D), improve your wit, think some time before you approach, if you read a lot of examples, you're going to remember them on the field. But you'll get the idea, and you'll get to a point where you don't need them anymore.

It used to help me A LOT to save all of my good ones...

But you'll get to a point that you don't need them anymore. This won't work to fix your game, THAT'S FOR SURE! Work on the other 90%! :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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