partyforlife
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While walking around campus I find many oppurtinities to open sets. However, I simply cannot find something to say that will carry on a conversation. Ne one have good openers?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
cant think what to say
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AreYouSingleFemale
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I really hate the social conditioning in the human society. Male animals just do it with the female. Perhaps after fighting with a competitor. Life would be so much simpler and richer if we could do so instead of going through the stupid drama of speaking some crap or asking for an opinion which nobody cares to think about.
PS: Please don't remove my account.
PS: Please don't remove my account.
Dedication
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Two males humping eagother?AreYouSingleFemale said:
Anyway if you want an opening line just get some before you go out. Write them down so you won't forget them.
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THAT was the best you could think of?! CMON!Dedication said:
Don't bash the guy, he has a point. Especially don't bash the guy with a UNFUNNY answer...
If you can't REALLY think of something... Well... No one REALLY cares, that's for sure. 90% is how you say, what you say, how your body language is, the EXACT words are JUST 10 %. JUST 10.
Compare a alpha male with a beta male. The difference is VERY NOTICABLE, even if they are speaking a different language, you can tell FOR SURE, wow, this guy has it!
Even so, read some humor (This goes to deciation too
), improve your wit, think some time before you approach, if you read a lot of examples, you're going to remember them on the field. But you'll get the idea, and you'll get to a point where you don't need them anymore.It used to help me A LOT to save all of my good ones...
But you'll get to a point that you don't need them anymore. This won't work to fix your game, THAT'S FOR SURE! Work on the other 90%!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.