partyforlife
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While walking around campus I find many oppurtinities to open sets. However, I simply cannot find something to say that will carry on a conversation. Ne one have good openers?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
cant think what to say
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AreYouSingleFemale
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I really hate the social conditioning in the human society. Male animals just do it with the female. Perhaps after fighting with a competitor. Life would be so much simpler and richer if we could do so instead of going through the stupid drama of speaking some crap or asking for an opinion which nobody cares to think about.
PS: Please don't remove my account.
PS: Please don't remove my account.
Dedication
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Two males humping eagother?AreYouSingleFemale said:
Anyway if you want an opening line just get some before you go out. Write them down so you won't forget them.
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THAT was the best you could think of?! CMON!Dedication said:
Don't bash the guy, he has a point. Especially don't bash the guy with a UNFUNNY answer...
If you can't REALLY think of something... Well... No one REALLY cares, that's for sure. 90% is how you say, what you say, how your body language is, the EXACT words are JUST 10 %. JUST 10.
Compare a alpha male with a beta male. The difference is VERY NOTICABLE, even if they are speaking a different language, you can tell FOR SURE, wow, this guy has it!
Even so, read some humor (This goes to deciation too
), improve your wit, think some time before you approach, if you read a lot of examples, you're going to remember them on the field. But you'll get the idea, and you'll get to a point where you don't need them anymore.It used to help me A LOT to save all of my good ones...
But you'll get to a point that you don't need them anymore. This won't work to fix your game, THAT'S FOR SURE! Work on the other 90%!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.