partyforlife
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While walking around campus I find many oppurtinities to open sets. However, I simply cannot find something to say that will carry on a conversation. Ne one have good openers?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
cant think what to say
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
AreYouSingleFemale
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I really hate the social conditioning in the human society. Male animals just do it with the female. Perhaps after fighting with a competitor. Life would be so much simpler and richer if we could do so instead of going through the stupid drama of speaking some crap or asking for an opinion which nobody cares to think about.
PS: Please don't remove my account.
PS: Please don't remove my account.
Dedication
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Two males humping eagother?AreYouSingleFemale said:
Anyway if you want an opening line just get some before you go out. Write them down so you won't forget them.
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THAT was the best you could think of?! CMON!Dedication said:
Don't bash the guy, he has a point. Especially don't bash the guy with a UNFUNNY answer...
If you can't REALLY think of something... Well... No one REALLY cares, that's for sure. 90% is how you say, what you say, how your body language is, the EXACT words are JUST 10 %. JUST 10.
Compare a alpha male with a beta male. The difference is VERY NOTICABLE, even if they are speaking a different language, you can tell FOR SURE, wow, this guy has it!
Even so, read some humor (This goes to deciation too
), improve your wit, think some time before you approach, if you read a lot of examples, you're going to remember them on the field. But you'll get the idea, and you'll get to a point where you don't need them anymore.It used to help me A LOT to save all of my good ones...
But you'll get to a point that you don't need them anymore. This won't work to fix your game, THAT'S FOR SURE! Work on the other 90%!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.