"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Can't stop thinking about a girl?

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I dunno, its gonna sound a bit cheesy, but there's a girl in my school that I'm crazy about. She and I have a lot of classes together, and we have a lot of similar interests (she's into the same kind of music as me for one thing, and with the stuff that I listen to, that's REALLY rare). Anyway, I really can't stop thinking about her; but I don't know if she feels the same way. Thing is, every time I get around her, I end up choking, not knowing what to say or do. Anyone here in/has been in a similar situation? If so, what did you do?

Any help would be appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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this is whats known as one-itis. start chattin up some other random chicks on myspace or school or whatever and dont talk to this girl for about 2-5 days. if she's got any kind of attraction for you she'll start initiating some convos w/ u... all this i kno is way easier said than done... but it'll way pay off in the end. (if she doesnt start talking to you then u kno she doesnt like u and u stop wasting time, if she does talk to you ya might end up gettin some!) lol
 
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it hurts... but oneitis just cripples you (I know from experience). Best way to cure it? Meet other girls and maybe stop talking to her for a bit.

but one thing is to try not to play games. This site will tell you to play a lot of games with girls and stuff to get them to like you, but what you really need to do is be yourself. As you get better and better and more confident, this feeling of oneitis goes away, and you start to view all girls on a level playing field.

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i love porcupine tree... haven't met too many girls that like it tho haha.
 
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