Can't stop thinking about a girl?

[porcupin3tr33]

I dunno, its gonna sound a bit cheesy, but there's a girl in my school that I'm crazy about. She and I have a lot of classes together, and we have a lot of similar interests (she's into the same kind of music as me for one thing, and with the stuff that I listen to, that's REALLY rare). Anyway, I really can't stop thinking about her; but I don't know if she feels the same way. Thing is, every time I get around her, I end up choking, not knowing what to say or do. Anyone here in/has been in a similar situation? If so, what did you do?

Any help would be appreciated.

 

[(JJ)]

this is whats known as one-itis. start chattin up some other random chicks on myspace or school or whatever and dont talk to this girl for about 2-5 days. if she's got any kind of attraction for you she'll start initiating some convos w/ u... all this i kno is way easier said than done... but it'll way pay off in the end. (if she doesnt start talking to you then u kno she doesnt like u and u stop wasting time, if she does talk to you ya might end up gettin some!) lol

 

[eko]

it hurts... but oneitis just cripples you (I know from experience). Best way to cure it? Meet other girls and maybe stop talking to her for a bit.

but one thing is to try not to play games. This site will tell you to play a lot of games with girls and stuff to get them to like you, but what you really need to do is be yourself. As you get better and better and more confident, this feeling of oneitis goes away, and you start to view all girls on a level playing field.

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i love porcupine tree... haven't met too many girls that like it tho haha.