"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can't shake the Ex

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muffin

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So I dated this girl for about 5 months it was great while it lasted we ended things almost 3 months ago. She is dating someone new and so am I. My new girl is great so there shouldn't be any problem right?

Unfortunately I can't seem to get my ex off my mind. It's getting bad, to the point where everything reminds me of her and even sappy love songs on the radio start to sound as if they were written for my situation.

It's not really fair to my new girl to be someone who is wishing she was someone else. Any advice?
 

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Meh, it just takes time man.

As long as you:

Cut all contact with her.
Cut out things that remind you of her (as much as possible without detracting from your life)
Keep yourself busy

You can help the process along and help it not be so bad. But you have to force yourself to stop obsessing about her. When those songs come on, change the station (that sort of thing).

Other than that, it really is just a waiting game.
 
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That song "Cant believe it" reminds me of a chick I am still trying to get over, every time it comes on I change it, my friends ask why, I reply with "I fuking hate that song...."
 
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