"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can't shake the Ex

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muffin

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So I dated this girl for about 5 months it was great while it lasted we ended things almost 3 months ago. She is dating someone new and so am I. My new girl is great so there shouldn't be any problem right?

Unfortunately I can't seem to get my ex off my mind. It's getting bad, to the point where everything reminds me of her and even sappy love songs on the radio start to sound as if they were written for my situation.

It's not really fair to my new girl to be someone who is wishing she was someone else. Any advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vypros

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Meh, it just takes time man.

As long as you:

Cut all contact with her.
Cut out things that remind you of her (as much as possible without detracting from your life)
Keep yourself busy

You can help the process along and help it not be so bad. But you have to force yourself to stop obsessing about her. When those songs come on, change the station (that sort of thing).

Other than that, it really is just a waiting game.
 
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That song "Cant believe it" reminds me of a chick I am still trying to get over, every time it comes on I change it, my friends ask why, I reply with "I fuking hate that song...."
 
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