"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can't shake the Ex

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muffin

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So I dated this girl for about 5 months it was great while it lasted we ended things almost 3 months ago. She is dating someone new and so am I. My new girl is great so there shouldn't be any problem right?

Unfortunately I can't seem to get my ex off my mind. It's getting bad, to the point where everything reminds me of her and even sappy love songs on the radio start to sound as if they were written for my situation.

It's not really fair to my new girl to be someone who is wishing she was someone else. Any advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Meh, it just takes time man.

As long as you:

Cut all contact with her.
Cut out things that remind you of her (as much as possible without detracting from your life)
Keep yourself busy

You can help the process along and help it not be so bad. But you have to force yourself to stop obsessing about her. When those songs come on, change the station (that sort of thing).

Other than that, it really is just a waiting game.
 
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That song "Cant believe it" reminds me of a chick I am still trying to get over, every time it comes on I change it, my friends ask why, I reply with "I fuking hate that song...."
 
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