"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can't seem to finish

Raikojo17

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me and my gf just recently started having sex. the sex is good, she enjoys it, it last extremely long, etc.

but i dont seem to be getting as much enjoyment out of it as she does. i sometimes have to fake it so she doesnt get bored too. it's not that she's bad in bed (although she did over exaggerate her technique in bed), the problem is that i think i last waaay to long. everytime we go, we end up running out of time. when i do finish i have to pound it out, which means i can only do it in one position (doggy style).

I'm confused as to what's going on. my **** seems to have lost some sensitivity. it's not like i'm really experienced, so i should still finish in a relatively short time. and im also not cut, so i should have a more sensitive penis.

I was also wondering if this could be a condom problem, because when we went raw i felt like i would bust after only 5 min.

i'm just confused, i would like to finish sooner, because then i would get alot more enjoymeny out of sex. why cant i finish? is this a common problem among guys?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fender

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Put some lube on the inside of the condom- feels better for you so hopefully, you'll come faster.
 

dap

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Do you masterbate too much?

Do her doggy style so you can concentrate if you need to, hah (this might actually help)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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vitor

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if im having sex for the first time with a chick I always take care of myself once or twice so I last longer. I find when I date girls for long times and we go condom less when we break up and I start with someone new with condom it makes me last a long time. You can always do alot of foreplay, do her then ask for a HJ, BJ, or whatever you want to do. She wants you to finish just as much as you want her too. Or she should
 

oakraiderz2

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Raikojo17 said:
maybe...

but i thought masturbation was supposed to decrease lasting time
Negative
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Talk dirty to her, smack her a$$, pull her hair, have her suck you off before sex. Do somthing that turns you on more. Communicate with her of what works for you. The p@ssy feels better when its all hot n wet so stimulate her cl!t before sex. Have foreplay...
 
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