"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can't seem to finish

Raikojo17

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me and my gf just recently started having sex. the sex is good, she enjoys it, it last extremely long, etc.

but i dont seem to be getting as much enjoyment out of it as she does. i sometimes have to fake it so she doesnt get bored too. it's not that she's bad in bed (although she did over exaggerate her technique in bed), the problem is that i think i last waaay to long. everytime we go, we end up running out of time. when i do finish i have to pound it out, which means i can only do it in one position (doggy style).

I'm confused as to what's going on. my **** seems to have lost some sensitivity. it's not like i'm really experienced, so i should still finish in a relatively short time. and im also not cut, so i should have a more sensitive penis.

I was also wondering if this could be a condom problem, because when we went raw i felt like i would bust after only 5 min.

i'm just confused, i would like to finish sooner, because then i would get alot more enjoymeny out of sex. why cant i finish? is this a common problem among guys?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fender

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Put some lube on the inside of the condom- feels better for you so hopefully, you'll come faster.
 

dap

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Do you masterbate too much?

Do her doggy style so you can concentrate if you need to, hah (this might actually help)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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vitor

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if im having sex for the first time with a chick I always take care of myself once or twice so I last longer. I find when I date girls for long times and we go condom less when we break up and I start with someone new with condom it makes me last a long time. You can always do alot of foreplay, do her then ask for a HJ, BJ, or whatever you want to do. She wants you to finish just as much as you want her too. Or she should
 

oakraiderz2

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Raikojo17 said:
maybe...

but i thought masturbation was supposed to decrease lasting time
Negative
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Talk dirty to her, smack her a$$, pull her hair, have her suck you off before sex. Do somthing that turns you on more. Communicate with her of what works for you. The p@ssy feels better when its all hot n wet so stimulate her cl!t before sex. Have foreplay...
 
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