"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can't seem to finish

Raikojo17

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me and my gf just recently started having sex. the sex is good, she enjoys it, it last extremely long, etc.

but i dont seem to be getting as much enjoyment out of it as she does. i sometimes have to fake it so she doesnt get bored too. it's not that she's bad in bed (although she did over exaggerate her technique in bed), the problem is that i think i last waaay to long. everytime we go, we end up running out of time. when i do finish i have to pound it out, which means i can only do it in one position (doggy style).

I'm confused as to what's going on. my **** seems to have lost some sensitivity. it's not like i'm really experienced, so i should still finish in a relatively short time. and im also not cut, so i should have a more sensitive penis.

I was also wondering if this could be a condom problem, because when we went raw i felt like i would bust after only 5 min.

i'm just confused, i would like to finish sooner, because then i would get alot more enjoymeny out of sex. why cant i finish? is this a common problem among guys?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fender

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Put some lube on the inside of the condom- feels better for you so hopefully, you'll come faster.
 

dap

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Do you masterbate too much?

Do her doggy style so you can concentrate if you need to, hah (this might actually help)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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vitor

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if im having sex for the first time with a chick I always take care of myself once or twice so I last longer. I find when I date girls for long times and we go condom less when we break up and I start with someone new with condom it makes me last a long time. You can always do alot of foreplay, do her then ask for a HJ, BJ, or whatever you want to do. She wants you to finish just as much as you want her too. Or she should
 

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Raikojo17 said:
maybe...

but i thought masturbation was supposed to decrease lasting time
Negative
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Talk dirty to her, smack her a$$, pull her hair, have her suck you off before sex. Do somthing that turns you on more. Communicate with her of what works for you. The p@ssy feels better when its all hot n wet so stimulate her cl!t before sex. Have foreplay...
 
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