"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cant make her orgazm

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Hello all...

Last night my girlfriend and I had just gotten back from a movie and were both looking forward to bed time .. she than pleasured me and afterward i proceeded to finger her.. she cudnt orgazm.. i tried both hands, did it the same way i always do, kissed her etc to even get her more horny.. etc etc.. than... on fri nite aswell she cudnt orgazm..I have been with her for over a year now and..

The last time this happened was over a year ago when she said she had a mental block cos she and her boyfriend ( x ) had just ended so i understood... so for the last year she been loving being fingered etc and orgazming easily etc

all of a sudden the last 2 times ive tried, not working. I asked her what the issue is, if she is stressed or thinking of something or not keen or what etc etc... she said "i dont kno wat it is." --- what am i ment to make of this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Take a break from the sex/foreplay. The next time she wants it just say something "like not now babe." Make her wait a week or two, eventually she is going to crave it. Tease her a bit and then go in for the kill.
 
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Ok? Do u think she might be with another guy that she getting it elsewhere?

Is there something on her mind that she isnt orgazming all of a sudden?

what could it be?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So I shouldnt think she is with anyone else or think that she has things on her mind like she did a year ago wen we first met?

I should mix it up by giving her oral and also making her wait a week or so for the next time I touch her?
 
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Do you sleep with her? Or only finger her? Like Captain said: you should do oral sex and well.... intercourse, while fingering her at the same time. Don't be so affraid. If you're affraid it's more difficult to make her horny. She has to be relaxed completely. If she's uptight she can't orgasm. Same goes for you probably.
 
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Captain said:
Mix up what you do, don't do the same thing every night.
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Right here's your answer... :yes: Do this and you'll fix the problem
 
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