"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cant make her orgazm

Ll Principe

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Hello all...

Last night my girlfriend and I had just gotten back from a movie and were both looking forward to bed time .. she than pleasured me and afterward i proceeded to finger her.. she cudnt orgazm.. i tried both hands, did it the same way i always do, kissed her etc to even get her more horny.. etc etc.. than... on fri nite aswell she cudnt orgazm..I have been with her for over a year now and..

The last time this happened was over a year ago when she said she had a mental block cos she and her boyfriend ( x ) had just ended so i understood... so for the last year she been loving being fingered etc and orgazming easily etc

all of a sudden the last 2 times ive tried, not working. I asked her what the issue is, if she is stressed or thinking of something or not keen or what etc etc... she said "i dont kno wat it is." --- what am i ment to make of this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Scars

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Take a break from the sex/foreplay. The next time she wants it just say something "like not now babe." Make her wait a week or two, eventually she is going to crave it. Tease her a bit and then go in for the kill.
 

Ll Principe

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Ok? Do u think she might be with another guy that she getting it elsewhere?

Is there something on her mind that she isnt orgazming all of a sudden?

what could it be?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ll Principe

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So I shouldnt think she is with anyone else or think that she has things on her mind like she did a year ago wen we first met?

I should mix it up by giving her oral and also making her wait a week or so for the next time I touch her?
 

Guoy Darko

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Do you sleep with her? Or only finger her? Like Captain said: you should do oral sex and well.... intercourse, while fingering her at the same time. Don't be so affraid. If you're affraid it's more difficult to make her horny. She has to be relaxed completely. If she's uptight she can't orgasm. Same goes for you probably.
 

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Captain said:
Mix up what you do, don't do the same thing every night.
Right here's your answer... :yes: Do this and you'll fix the problem
 
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