"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cant make her orgazm

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Hello all...

Last night my girlfriend and I had just gotten back from a movie and were both looking forward to bed time .. she than pleasured me and afterward i proceeded to finger her.. she cudnt orgazm.. i tried both hands, did it the same way i always do, kissed her etc to even get her more horny.. etc etc.. than... on fri nite aswell she cudnt orgazm..I have been with her for over a year now and..

The last time this happened was over a year ago when she said she had a mental block cos she and her boyfriend ( x ) had just ended so i understood... so for the last year she been loving being fingered etc and orgazming easily etc

all of a sudden the last 2 times ive tried, not working. I asked her what the issue is, if she is stressed or thinking of something or not keen or what etc etc... she said "i dont kno wat it is." --- what am i ment to make of this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Take a break from the sex/foreplay. The next time she wants it just say something "like not now babe." Make her wait a week or two, eventually she is going to crave it. Tease her a bit and then go in for the kill.
 
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Ok? Do u think she might be with another guy that she getting it elsewhere?

Is there something on her mind that she isnt orgazming all of a sudden?

what could it be?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So I shouldnt think she is with anyone else or think that she has things on her mind like she did a year ago wen we first met?

I should mix it up by giving her oral and also making her wait a week or so for the next time I touch her?
 
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Do you sleep with her? Or only finger her? Like Captain said: you should do oral sex and well.... intercourse, while fingering her at the same time. Don't be so affraid. If you're affraid it's more difficult to make her horny. She has to be relaxed completely. If she's uptight she can't orgasm. Same goes for you probably.
 
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Captain said:
Mix up what you do, don't do the same thing every night.
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Right here's your answer... :yes: Do this and you'll fix the problem
 
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