Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Can't keep my cool, turning red wtf

LuckyStrike88

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Yo bros..

So i'm regularly seeing this girl, we've been friends for about a year.
Sorry for throwing out this beta line but there's no other way to describe it.
I am madly inlove with this girl.

We sit close to each other on the couch chilling watching movies, physical play, long eye contact. She's the one that usually makes the moves as in sitting closer to me touching legs etc. But i freeze up, even turned all red tonight and had some speechless moments. Never had that with any of my exes was usually pretty straight forward in just grabbing her, but with this one i get too akward to make any kind of move.

What to do, idk how to keep my cool.. Saw her tonight when it went like this and she asked to hang out soon this week again.

Any advice appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jimmy18

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You need to just fvcking chill out and kiss her.

To chill out, have a shot of alcohol 30 mins before you see her.

To kiss her, HAVE SOME BALLS AND JUST DO IT OR YOU WILL REGRET IT ON YOUR DEATH BED
 

LuckyStrike88

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jimmy18 said:
You need to just fvcking chill out and kiss her.

To chill out, have a shot of alcohol 30 mins before you see her.

To kiss her, HAVE SOME BALLS AND JUST DO IT OR YOU WILL REGRET IT ON YOUR DEATH BED
Thanks man been telling myself that. I could tell she was disappointing i didn't. Will give it another try this week
 

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Man, please do it! Kiss her! Just grab her neck and kiss. You don't have to say anything... Don't miss your chance or you'll regret it as I was...
 

djthiago1

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astrn said:
Man, please do it! Kiss her! Just grab her neck and kiss. You don't have to say anything... Don't miss your chance or you'll regret it as I was...
What this dude said. She's just a girl man, go for it, grab that neck and that tight little waist and go for it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mike32ct

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jimmy18 said:
You need to just fvcking chill out and kiss her.

To chill out, have a shot of alcohol 30 mins before you see her.

To kiss her, HAVE SOME BALLS AND JUST DO IT OR YOU WILL REGRET IT ON YOUR DEATH BED
^This.

Actually, you'll regret it long BEFORE your death bed. Years later, when a chick like this won't even LOOK at you, you WILL be kicking yourself for not going for it. I'm telling you this from experience. I'm almost 40 and my dad is almost 70. Him and I sometimes share stories about missed or F-ed up opportunities from the past. Don't be like us lol.

If it helps you, I recommend the "hair touch." Make some eye contact, then brush her hairline and side of her face with your fingertips. It's like you are pushing the long hair out of her eye. Then lean in for the kiss. It's a golden move that I've used many times. Somehow chicks always know what it means. It's like some international "I'm gonna kiss you now" sign.
 
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