"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can't keep my cool, turning red wtf

LuckyStrike88

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Yo bros..

So i'm regularly seeing this girl, we've been friends for about a year.
Sorry for throwing out this beta line but there's no other way to describe it.
I am madly inlove with this girl.

We sit close to each other on the couch chilling watching movies, physical play, long eye contact. She's the one that usually makes the moves as in sitting closer to me touching legs etc. But i freeze up, even turned all red tonight and had some speechless moments. Never had that with any of my exes was usually pretty straight forward in just grabbing her, but with this one i get too akward to make any kind of move.

What to do, idk how to keep my cool.. Saw her tonight when it went like this and she asked to hang out soon this week again.

Any advice appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jimmy18

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You need to just fvcking chill out and kiss her.

To chill out, have a shot of alcohol 30 mins before you see her.

To kiss her, HAVE SOME BALLS AND JUST DO IT OR YOU WILL REGRET IT ON YOUR DEATH BED
 

LuckyStrike88

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jimmy18 said:
You need to just fvcking chill out and kiss her.

To chill out, have a shot of alcohol 30 mins before you see her.

To kiss her, HAVE SOME BALLS AND JUST DO IT OR YOU WILL REGRET IT ON YOUR DEATH BED
Thanks man been telling myself that. I could tell she was disappointing i didn't. Will give it another try this week
 

astrn

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Man, please do it! Kiss her! Just grab her neck and kiss. You don't have to say anything... Don't miss your chance or you'll regret it as I was...
 

djthiago1

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astrn said:
Man, please do it! Kiss her! Just grab her neck and kiss. You don't have to say anything... Don't miss your chance or you'll regret it as I was...
What this dude said. She's just a girl man, go for it, grab that neck and that tight little waist and go for it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mike32ct

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jimmy18 said:
You need to just fvcking chill out and kiss her.

To chill out, have a shot of alcohol 30 mins before you see her.

To kiss her, HAVE SOME BALLS AND JUST DO IT OR YOU WILL REGRET IT ON YOUR DEATH BED
^This.

Actually, you'll regret it long BEFORE your death bed. Years later, when a chick like this won't even LOOK at you, you WILL be kicking yourself for not going for it. I'm telling you this from experience. I'm almost 40 and my dad is almost 70. Him and I sometimes share stories about missed or F-ed up opportunities from the past. Don't be like us lol.

If it helps you, I recommend the "hair touch." Make some eye contact, then brush her hairline and side of her face with your fingertips. It's like you are pushing the long hair out of her eye. Then lean in for the kiss. It's a golden move that I've used many times. Somehow chicks always know what it means. It's like some international "I'm gonna kiss you now" sign.
 
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