Can't Go Clubbing because I am FAT!?!?!?!

[SharinganUser]

I am not going to go clubing anymore. In the last 2 months of clubing I've only taken home one woman. Other than that it's been nothing but me trying to avoid getting sexually harrassed by these stupid ****ing gay chinese guys.

And if that wasn't enough, I am a fat guy, so this for some reason makes these chinese fags think they can rub my belly or poke my stomach. It's fvcking humilating and it makes me want to beat the **** out of them.

I already hate myself for being fat, I don't need these stupid chinese fags harassing me.

Two days ago some stupid ***** I was watching a movie with (I was watching alone and she and her fb joined me) laughed and pointed at a morbidly obese guy on the screen, and said to me "just like you." I am not morbidly obese.


Then yesterday this ugly ass stupid ***** has the nerve to barg in my room and call me fat for no ****ing reason at all. I basically told her to leave and that "atleast I am not 3ft tall like you."

Then I head out to the lobby because I had some business to take care of at the front desk, and this ****ing rude ass staff member called me fat and poked my stomach. I couldn't believe it. I just yelled at all them and said "So what if I am fat, atleast I am still a foot taller than any of you, so it doesn't fvcking matter."

Honestly I am getting sick of all this **** and I am going to fly off the handle next time someone is rude to me.

 

[SharinganUser]

bump

 

[Jaggs]

The solution to every problem you just stated, and much much more is:

Get healthy, and lose the fat.

This will reap benefits beyond any of these petty problems. It will improve your life %100.

There is no other way.

 

[The Bat]

Go postal.

Just kidding.

You're doing something that's provoking everybody to make fun of you like this. Did you used to laugh with them before when they made fun of you?

And I hope you're working out and following a strict diet to help you lose weight and buff up, right?

Back in the days, I had the opposite problem. I was a skinny mofo. At least with fat people, there is a political correctness system in place. I.E. You can seriously offend somebody if you call them a fat lard.

But with skinny people, there is no such thing. I can't tell you how many times and how many different names I've been called because I was so damn skinny. And people don't realize that it used to offend me quite often too.

Initially, I would be pissed off and I would let it ruin my entire day and my mood. But as soon as I started working out and eating right, I just stopped caring about what others thought of me. Because the truth was that I was working towards building a bigger body while most people who made fun of my skinniness were not taking care of themselves too well.

In the end though, I had the last laugh. I have an awesome physique now while people who used to make fun of me are still the same (unhealthy) or have gotten fatter. I can't remember the last time somebody called me skinny.

Point is, don't let it get to you...so long as you're working HARD to lose that weight. If you aren't, then what are you waiting for? Go over to Health & Fitness and get started.

:rockon:

 

[Alle_Gory]

I already hate myself for being fat, I don't need these stupid chinese fags harassing me.

Obviously you don't hate it enough, otherwise you would have done something about it.

Honestly I am getting sick of all this **** and I am going to fly off the handle next time someone is rude to me.

You can't change people. You can change yourself.

Don't be fat.

 

[SharinganUser]

Alle Gory, it takes time to lose weight, you can't just put in one hard work out and then wake up with brad pitt abs the next morning.

I am going to increase my work out and stop going out to clubs until I have a six pack. I don't care how long it takes.

 

[fertileTurtle]

Hey it you ever get back in shape they'll just call you a dumb jock. You'll never please them, so fuk them. Just keep biatch slapping them in the mean time.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Alle Gory, it takes time to lose weight, you can't just put in one hard work out and then wake up with brad pitt abs the next morning.

Its easy-ish to lose weight. Its much harder to gain.

How many extra pounds of fat are you carrying? And what are your lifting numbers?

I am going to increase my work out and stop going out to clubs until I have a six pack. I don't care how long it takes.

We'll see. Prove it.

Just keep biatch slapping them in the mean time.

Pass the pipe please.

 

[imaginemypotential]

you need to stop eliminate fast foods out of you diet first, and start eating healthy

 

[nismo-4]

First of all, To the OP and the bat, no matter where the f**k you are in society, some motherf**ker is gonna have a problem with you in one way or another. Rich, famous, young, old, smart, dumb, short, tall, fat, skinny, inbetween, they all get picked in some way. Snap back and have fun with it! You'll only get picked on more if you let these types of folks bother you and you make it obvious.

OP, I need to get you right.

You let this little sh*t get to you bro. Stop it. If you're getting more pokes from people to your belly as opposed to on facebook, you really need to examine yourself and do something about it. Plastic surgery seems ideal, but assuming you don't have that kind of money, you'll have to stick to a strict diet. Get that fat off of you. Trust me, it's a change for the better. I advise you to find some fun OUTDOOR activity or sport, put down that Nintendo Wii controller now! There are guys like you who can STILL pull hot babes, and that's without a Mercedes or BMW.

All in all, don't let your insecurities get the better of you!

 

[Pathgen]

Im not fat, but i have been a little chubby and lately i have been working out to gain muscle and lose that 10-15 pounds of extra fat i carry around. At first i did it because i thought i would appear more attractive to the ladies.

What i found out?
1) I am more confident as i can feel muscles on my body it just happens
2) I am way more healthy
3) My Skin coloring is really a lot better, i didnt notice i was pale but now my cheeks are more red
4) My facial features look a lot better
5) I have more regular bowel movements and then feel better during the day
6) Im not out of breath nearly as often
7) I obviously look and fit better in clothing

Besides what i set out to do i gained much more than possibly attracting more women. I respect that it may take many years to get the fat off, but its definitely worth it. Even the little change that i have gone through of exercising has made a huge impact on me.

I really recommend you do this. I wanted to wake up with brad pitt abs in the morning also, but it isn't realistic. However, a little over 1 month of getting back into shape has done this for me. I look around and realize that i have to take it all the way and that if i ever gave up i might never reach my goal.

Good luck

 

[Jitterbug]

At least with fat people, there is a political correctness system in place. I.E. You can seriously offend somebody if you call them a fat lard.

No such system exists in China.

The stomach poking of fatties is partly cultural. There's a really fat Buddha with a huge pot belly in Chinese culture and if you poke or rub his belly, you get good luck, apparently. The Chinese just extend that myth & use it on fat people, who used to be so rare that they're almost like Buddhas.

 

[Lust]

Do something about it then. Don't come on here to whinge.

You don't need to come here and post about your problems, I'm sure you can figure out the solution to this problem yourself. All you need is a spoonful of cement.

 

[Dannyrt34]

I want to know where you live? Because it's surprising to me at how many rude people there are, I never see it where I'm from.

Other than that, I agree with what the others said. You shouldn't worry about what other people think of you, but if it comes to a time that you think you need to make some changes.... Then go work out

 

[bam bam]

hahaa dude awesome post I **** my pants laughing at it...

stop making things so complicated lose weight dont cry and change your lifestyle. Diets only work for competitive athletes because their to get them into incredible shape from good shape. You need a lifestyle change fat man. No napkins from me go out there and do it if you dont no one will. Prove to yourself that you can change. One meal at a time one thing at a time and you'll be there in no time. *pokes belly* kapish?

 

[Dedication]

SharinganUser
Master Don Juan
Join Date: Oct 2006
Posts: 852

No excuses from you. You could have started to lose the fast the moment you joined these forums. You must have found the answer to all these problems already. As i see you have over 850 posts and joined 2 years ago. Go get yourself unfattedized if that is what you want.

And if they say something like "You are fat". You say "Your mom is fat" If they say "But my mom is dead" you say "Yes your mom is in hell and is fatter than satan is."

Everytime they make fun of you. You make fun of thier mom. Easy as that.

 

[SharinganUser]

Dedication, I wasn't always fat. I didn't gain the weight until about 7 or 8 months ago. I used to have a six pack about 2 years ago, and other that most of the time I've been in ok shape(enough to play some bball at the gym). Last year my confidence was actually great.

Now that I am fat, I am getting harrassed about it 4 or 5 times a day by total strangers. Back when I was in Canada, my own mother would tell me how much she hates fat people. I honestly can't wait to get back in shape again so I can make fun of fat people and average people too.

I've decided to work on a reward/punishment type of routine. Today I did 100 push ups and some curls and some bridge exercises. It's not much but it's a start.

I am tired of getting verbally and sexually harrassed because I am fat white guy in a foreign land. I am tired of feeling like a worthless **** up.


EDIT: Right now I weigh about 108 kilos. This is a video I am in http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1jO8AIIH8k. I am definitely not morbidly obese.

 

[Al Moh.]

Hi SharinganUser,

I might be wrong, but wasn't being fat something good in chinese culture?

What I'd like to know is: How did the people react when you yelled at them? Where they suprised that you were offended by their actions? Or were they aware that they offended you?

As for the video, you aren't morbidly obese, not even close. I wouldn't think this should be such a problem. There must be something else.

I honestly can't wait to get back in shape again so I can make fun of fat people and average people too.

Uhm... Why are you complaining if you want to do the same thing? Actually, now that I think about it, do you make fun of people often? Because if you do, they might do the same to you, thinking it's normal for you and you won't take it seriously.

 

[Quiksilver]

Tough love, maybe these people are right and you should get yourself into better shape. It'll only make you feel better and pay dividends in the clubs, only thing stopping you right now is yourself.

 

[Energizer]

When you look slimmer your **** looks bigger.