"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can't Go Clubbing because I am FAT!?!?!?!

Alle_Gory

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SharinganUser said:
EDIT: Right now I weigh about 108 kilos. This is a video I am in http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1jO8AIIH8k. I am definitely not morbidly obese.
In that video you are in between chubby and fat. From the looks of your body, you have a good base for weightlifting. You should respond well to it.

Now if everyone says you are fat, you are fat. Different place, different norms.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stop going to gay clubs? Unless you are a fag, nevermind then.

Anyway, layoff the fast food, beer, bla bla...
 

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Er you're not morbidly obese but you're looking pretty unhealthy. If you're living in China then not many other people will be fat so that's probably why it gets pointed out so much...

By the way if you want to lose weight cardio and gym combined are a lot better than 90% of body weight exercises.
 

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Meh youre not fat at all :S kinda chunky but not a big deal. Just start exercising a bit more
 

SharinganUser

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Don Shinra said:
Stop going to gay clubs? Unless you are a fag, nevermind then.

Anyway, layoff the fast food, beer, bla bla...

Dude I am not going to gay clubs. The men here in china out number the women by 10's of millions. It doesn't matter what club I go to, there is going to be gays there.

Uhm... Why are you complaining if you want to do the same thing? Actually, now that I think about it, do you make fun of people often? Because if you do, they might do the same to you, thinking it's normal for you and you won't take it seriously.

I don't really want to do that. I am just angry and bitter. I don't think I'll do that once things get better. I am not really that kind of person. I don't make fun of people's appearance or things that I think might offend them. Besides these are almost random strangers that are harrassing me, they have no idea what I think is normal or if I will take it seriously.

I am actually feeling better about it today. I went out to the clubs last night and no one bothered me, I didn't drink much but I danced a lot and had a good time, made a few approachs but got shot down. I am going to go for 3-6 hour walks everyday and do atleast 100 push ups and 50 sit ups to start off. Then for every piece of "bad" food I eat, I'll have to do 100 more push ups. I'll also look for a gym in my area.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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