"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can't go beyond petting

EmotionalGeek

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I met girl and I was on about 5 dates with her. On third date I kissed her (bit late, I know). On 4th and 5th we kissed passionately and I was able to play with her ****oris -- she was real wet -- I could touch her breast under her bra but whenever I tried to insert a finger or take off bra she stopped me.

Dating wise she invest -- prepared dinner for me, invited to her sister birthday, buys wine, she bought Christmas present for me etc.

From one side she is looking like good LTR material and she wants me to be her BF but on the other I can't get sex. I want to give her few more dates before I say goodbye. Do you have similar experiences and can advice something?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Billtx49

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If you got to the point of fingering third base and she put up LMR, she’s either keeping her other options open, or you're not escalating properly regarding procedure, time, or isolation to a place that she feels comfortable with.
 
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lizardking82

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Absolutely. I think you got a nice one here. Tread calmly. You lead the situation where you want. She takes your finger away, you let it go, you sit her down and kiss for a while, caress her, take it easy. A while later, you try again. If she refuses again, you change the subject. Women like a man who knows sooner or later, he is gonna get what he wants. Do not give up with the first try when other signs are positive. This girl likes you, she just doesn't wanna give it up very early on. Whatever the reasons, the fact she makes dinner and invites you out...man, you don't know how hard it is to find a girl who is creative and makes things. Keep her around and progress calmly, report here for any other happenings in other dates.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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IAmNoob

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Guys at that point I'm pretty convinced she is a virgin. I think that's why she gives so much LMR.
 
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